4 Reasons New Year’s Resolutions Fail (and the Tips to Succeed)
This year I decided to set a New Year’s resolution for myself. My goal was to drink a minimum of 64oz of water every day.
Everything I’d read about resolutions indicated that there is a critical milestone that occurs between days 20 to 25 when an activity becomes a habit. Sadly, most individuals struggle to adapt to the initial disruption to their daily lives, and their best intentions for change languish. As we head into week four of 2020, I can proudly say I’m drinking considerably closer to 64oz of water per day. I’m not perfect, but I’ve incorporated behaviors that support me in reaching that goal.
How do I continue to ensure success? By avoiding these pitfalls:
1. The goal wasn’t clearly defined
Drink no less than 64oz of water per day. Boom – simple, right? I know exactly how much water I need to consume. I have a measure of my daily success or failure and I can hold myself accountable.
2.The plan didn’t survive first contact
Plans rarely do. However, the more details taken into consideration, the more likely every contingency that could derail progress has been addressed. My plan includes strategically placing cups and water bottles around my house, office and in my Jeep to help me adhere to my plan.
3.Lots of change at once is hard
Humans are creatures of habit and even seemingly small changes can have ripple effects in our daily lives. Incorporating many changes simultaneously doesn’t allow for our minds to transform a few behaviors into habits. Instead, the key to success lies in focusing on a few critical changes that are stacked onto existing habits. I know my morning routine includes making coffee, so while I’m at the tap I fill my strategically placed cup with my first eight ounces of the day.
4.Lack of motivation
Without motivation any other qualifiers for success are moot. Deep down I knew I needed to drink more water so I could perform better in the gym. My motivation was fueled by a larger goal outside of just drinking more water.
So, for those of you crushing your 2020 goals, I salute you. For the rest of us who are struggling, take a moment to explore your goals, plans and most importantly your motivation. You may find a way to realign yourself to your goal with a better plan or discover a new goal—like running the MCM17.75K—to get your motivation back on track.
Written by Kate Kovatch, MCMO Staff